I Will Be Happy When…

A weekly message to strengthen your CORE and develop your resolve. 
February 19, 2014
 
Do you have a wait problem?

waiting to feel good about yourself until you lose weight,  

 

waiting to be happy until you find the right mate

 

waiting to do the things you enjoy until you have more time

 

waiting to feel satisfied until you have enough money

 

A “wait” problem is all about not feeling happy because you are waiting for a future success to actualize in your life and bring you happiness. Waiting is a major glitch in our happiness formula. In fact, waiting to be happy is actually sabotaging the success you are working so hard to attain!

  

And here is why…Your external world does not determine your happiness. Sean Achor, a leader in happiness research and author of the book, The Happiness Advantage, found that only 10 percent of our long-term happiness is predicted by our external world and a whopping 90 percent (yes, 90%!) is from how our brain processes our external world.

 

Here is the REAL SkinnyHappiness is the precursor to greater success and happiness, not the other way around!   

 

Clearly its time to rearrange our happiness formula and turn our approach inside out! This week focus on making two important brain processing shifts: 

 

#1. No more equating a future success with happiness  

 

#2. Let go of the idea that happiness is predictive of your external world.

 

Happiness is an inside job. In fact, Id say its at the CORE of what we do- not because of what we achieve!

 

O this is a happy day indeed!! 

Food for the Soul… Apple Core
Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be.
        ~Abraham Lincoln      

 

   

 

The Real Skinny & Love your CORE Pilates Weekly Core Technique
The Real Skinny & Love your CORE Pilates Weekly Core Technique

Oh happy month…yes more on happiness next week!

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About the Author:

Mary Fox, LMHC, RD challenges the traditional approach to weight management to help people discover their path to success. As a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Registered Dietitian, she combines both disciplines into a unique and comprehensive approach that is changing the way we understand weight management.

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